Our Story

We didn't build this because we're experts. We built it because we needed it.

We're James and Leann. A couple who, like a lot of couples, had built something real together — love, trust, a life — but somewhere along the way, the conversation had gotten comfortable. Safe. Predictable.

We weren't broken. We just weren't going anywhere new.

One night, sitting on our back deck with a bottle of wine, we started asking each other questions. Not the usual ones. Real ones. The kind you don't normally ask because you're not sure how the other person will answer. What turns you on that you've never told me. What you think about when you're alone. What you actually want from me.

That night changed everything.

We discovered desires we didn't know we shared. We unlocked conversations we'd been circling for years. And we realized something that felt important — most couples aren't struggling because they don't love each other. They're struggling because nobody gave them the right questions.

So we built the questions.

The Desires Deck is everything we wish we'd had that night — designed with intention, built with care, and tested on the most important couple we know. It's not a party game. It's not a gimmick. It's a tool for couples who are ready to go somewhere real together.

Whether you're brand new and want to build something deep from the start, long-term and ready to break out of the routine, or somewhere in between and quietly wondering if there's more — there is.

You just need the right questions.

Welcome to The Desires Deck.

Start where you're comfortable.

— James & Leann